Deborah E answers the question, “Hi,
I am from Mauritius. Actually, last month, my ex proposed to me again. He said that he really loves me and that he wanted to be with me again. After a few days, I told him, “Yes,” as i still have some feelings for him.
It’s been nearly one month that we have been together, but the thing is that he neither calls me nor texts me. It’s always me who calls him, but when I call him, it’s whether he is busy or there’s someone coming to disturb me.
We are never free for a real discussion.
I just want your opinion, what should i do? I really want things between us to get better but i don’t know how to do that.
Can you please help me?
Waiting for your reply, eagerly,
That is normally an exciting time, to accept a proposal and prepare for your future together with the person you love, and for that, I congratulate you.
However, from your tone in your letter, it sounds as if you have “settled” for this man. I do not get a sense that you are “jumping for joy” over the proposal or the idea of spending your life with him. That would cause me to be a bit concerned, in your shoes.
I once received the advice that you don’t marry the person you can live with, but rather, marry the person you cannot live without.