Deborah E answers the question, “I am a newly married girl and I have a very happy married life. My husband loves me a lot, but now I’m pregnant. We were not planning for a baby, yet, but, unexpectedly I got pregnant. My husband never talks about the baby. He always takes care of me. He always used to say take care of yourself, but never says take care of the baby as well and never shows any excitement towards the baby as the other fathers do. I’m so depressed. Tell me what I should do ..”
I am a newly married girl and I have a very happy married life. My husband loves me a lot, but now I’m pregnant. We were not planning for a baby, yet, but, unexpectedly I got pregnant. My husband never talks about the baby. He always takes care of me. He always used to say take care of yourself, but never says take care of the baby as well and never shows any excitement towards the baby as the other fathers do. I’m so depressed. Tell me what I should do ..
Oh, honey, I ache for you. It is a tough job, physically, emotionally, relationally, everything-ally, to carry a child within you and to have your body going through all sorts of different things, your emotions on roller coasters and hormones making you feel like you are not the same person. But, what you are experiencing is very beautiful and I’m sure you realize that. I also don’t want you to worry so much about the situation that you